No matter whom you marry but unless you accept your partner with your heart and soul you cannot solemnize your relationship. When you get married it’s not just your partner you get married to but you also get married to his thoughts, his insecurities, his fears, his weaknesses and his strengths. You have to be mentally prepared to get exposed to all kinds of sensitivity and vulnerability that comes along with a lifelong relationship. You need to be prepared to stand back to back, facing all sorts of situations life throws at you. It’s not about choosing the right partner but about choosing to live with honesty, transparency, deep love, devotion, openness, vulnerability and trust. Marriage is not just a legal decision but also a spiritual one….